Weekly Reflection #25 - Filling up the Tank


Each week, I share one insight. One piece of wisdom. One question to reflect on. (and a little Lagniappe)


Insight

Every Sunday, I fill up the gas tank on our little Suzuki Vitara. I learned this from Tom Limoncelli in Time Management For System Administrators. It doesn't matter if it's a quarter empty or a quarter full. I just top it off. The ritual categorically removes a potential source of stress from my week, all from a simple little habit.


Wisdom

A schedule defends from chaos and whim. It is a net for catching days.
Annie Dillard, The Writing Life

Reflection

What recurring stress could a single weekly ritual eliminate entirely?


Lagniappe

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